Chris and Rhianna

The following BLOG may offend some people....So lets get started.

First and foremost let me say that I am not an advocate of beating up a female for absolutely no reason or over a heated argument...I think it is more hurtful action is to turn your back on the situation and not feed fuel into the fire of a hostile situation. I also feel that if you ever want to physically attack ANY PERSON that you have a relationship with its best to let that relationship die. At the end of the day its just not worth your life or freedom.

However I think Chris Brown is getting so much backlash because of who he is and the fact that Rhianna is a female. let me pose a few questions.

If Chris Brown was gay and he beat up his now "boyfriend" would the public be as mad?

If Rhianna turned the tables and beat him down would the world have the same sympathy?

I asked that because too many people get wrapped up in "No man should EVER hit a woman" but its OK for a woman to do whatever act of physical violence to a man possible because of her position and feelings.

Lorianna Bobbitt and KeKe Wyatt have Cut of a penis and stabbed a man for cheating. Not for physical or even verbal abuse.

I wont say names because these people are my friends and family but I have seen Domestic Violence play out on both sides..Sometimes the man takes it there and sometimes the woman takes it there...and then sometimes its a straight battlefield and I IMMEDIATELY remove myself from the situation.

Anyone who condemns Chris Brown solely off the strength of him beating Rhianna up I ask that you be careful of how and why you judge people. Because everyone has a cross to bear. We have all done some very unforgivable and savage things in our life time but let God handle that...not TMZ and the mainstream media.


Please comment please talk to me...I really want to know how you feel.