The following BLOG may offend some people....So lets get started.
First and foremost let me say that I am not an advocate of beating up a female for absolutely no reason or over a heated argument...I think it is more hurtful action is to turn your back on the situation and not feed fuel into the fire of a hostile situation. I also feel that if you ever want to physically attack ANY PERSON that you have a relationship with its best to let that relationship die. At the end of the day its just not worth your life or freedom.
However I think Chris Brown is getting so much backlash because of who he is and the fact that Rhianna is a female. let me pose a few questions.
If Chris Brown was gay and he beat up his now "boyfriend" would the public be as mad?
If Rhianna turned the tables and beat him down would the world have the same sympathy?
I asked that because too many people get wrapped up in "No man should EVER hit a woman" but its OK for a woman to do whatever act of physical violence to a man possible because of her position and feelings.
Lorianna Bobbitt and KeKe Wyatt have Cut of a penis and stabbed a man for cheating. Not for physical or even verbal abuse.
I wont say names because these people are my friends and family but I have seen Domestic Violence play out on both sides..Sometimes the man takes it there and sometimes the woman takes it there...and then sometimes its a straight battlefield and I IMMEDIATELY remove myself from the situation.
Anyone who condemns Chris Brown solely off the strength of him beating Rhianna up I ask that you be careful of how and why you judge people. Because everyone has a cross to bear. We have all done some very unforgivable and savage things in our life time but let God handle that...not TMZ and the mainstream media.
Please comment please talk to me...I really want to know how you feel.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Topsy Tervy
I am typing this with a fully congested mind. I got so much I want to write down but don't have the right beats. Man I wish I could make tracks...to be honest I don't have the patience. Oh well if anybody read this and got a soulful thought provoking beat hit me up.
Thinking about going back to school
Thinking about getting this new job
Thinking about how NOT to sacrifice my only real love which is music
Thinking about family and having my own
Thinking about how to settle down in a situation that is not 100% fulfilling
You add financial issues with all that and you got the reason why I am up this late typing. Wild I know. I just ask for prayer...anyone that reads this....Please pray. Its really been the best medicine.
Thinking about going back to school
Thinking about getting this new job
Thinking about how NOT to sacrifice my only real love which is music
Thinking about family and having my own
Thinking about how to settle down in a situation that is not 100% fulfilling
You add financial issues with all that and you got the reason why I am up this late typing. Wild I know. I just ask for prayer...anyone that reads this....Please pray. Its really been the best medicine.
Friday, January 23, 2009
All In The Presentation
OK...Let's really talk y'all. The Internet much like trips to the grocery store, mall and etc can be very intriguing and deceiving. The main object in this category are the women.
Lets be honest with ourselves. A really pretty girl "dressed down" will be easily overshadowed by a barely decent girl "dressed up" All about packaging. See if its all about the first impression then you can easily make the unlikely pair happen off of one good showing. I know I have truly been fooled at sometimes. Let me be the first to say that Any woman can get Any man just off the merit of a very strong presentation. Worst case scenario its a date, number exchange and then never called again....but still....they had you
Who thinks I'm wrong?
Lets be honest with ourselves. A really pretty girl "dressed down" will be easily overshadowed by a barely decent girl "dressed up" All about packaging. See if its all about the first impression then you can easily make the unlikely pair happen off of one good showing. I know I have truly been fooled at sometimes. Let me be the first to say that Any woman can get Any man just off the merit of a very strong presentation. Worst case scenario its a date, number exchange and then never called again....but still....they had you
Who thinks I'm wrong?
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
TCOMM THUGGIN
There is currently a worldwide disease affect the minds of people of all ages races and creeds across America. Even reading it I become slightly affected by it.
Its called TCOMM THUGGIN
Dont you hate to see all the woofing, beefing and threats sent on comments blogs and and websites? If so your mind has been properly quarantined and you may feel certain side effects but have no serious trauma do to the disease
Now if you love nothing better than to engage in the "10ft TALK" that you see on myspace, youtube, thisis50.com....then I can only hope a couple things
1. That you are truly everything you say you are and some
2. That you see the foolishness of your ways and actions and get help immediately
I feel that if the Internet was just one building and you KNEW your chances of seeing a person thats always poppin off at the mouth were a mere 1 in 11 chance....I seriously doubt you would have the issue
As I like to say..
"Your Heart pump slushie, its Kool-Aid in your veins and you Shit sugar!"
LMAO!
Its called TCOMM THUGGIN
Dont you hate to see all the woofing, beefing and threats sent on comments blogs and and websites? If so your mind has been properly quarantined and you may feel certain side effects but have no serious trauma do to the disease
Now if you love nothing better than to engage in the "10ft TALK" that you see on myspace, youtube, thisis50.com....then I can only hope a couple things
1. That you are truly everything you say you are and some
2. That you see the foolishness of your ways and actions and get help immediately
I feel that if the Internet was just one building and you KNEW your chances of seeing a person thats always poppin off at the mouth were a mere 1 in 11 chance....I seriously doubt you would have the issue
As I like to say..
"Your Heart pump slushie, its Kool-Aid in your veins and you Shit sugar!"
LMAO!
Father vs. Husband
So I am having a conversation with a very close friend of mine and we get on the topic of marriage and kids and all that. I was telling them how I think Im more prepared to be a father than a husband. I honestly am really excited at the possibly of being a father one day...However I dont see myself being a husband any time soon
So of course laughter ensues but they did agree that not everybody is ready or built for marriage for that matter and that they were sure some females would be down for that if you came correct about the situation...then I laughed! LMAO!
Dont get it wrong...I would like to have all my children by the same woman. Cause lord knows what kind of "Dad" my "Father" was...but I dont want to get real old by the time I make up my mind on officially jumping the broom and trying to have kids in my late 30's or 40's
So let me know something. How do you feel about this topic?
So of course laughter ensues but they did agree that not everybody is ready or built for marriage for that matter and that they were sure some females would be down for that if you came correct about the situation...then I laughed! LMAO!
Dont get it wrong...I would like to have all my children by the same woman. Cause lord knows what kind of "Dad" my "Father" was...but I dont want to get real old by the time I make up my mind on officially jumping the broom and trying to have kids in my late 30's or 40's
So let me know something. How do you feel about this topic?
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
44TH
So today is honestly one of the biggest day in American History. Whether you are black or white or other you have to admit that you never thought you see this day and that it wont be anything this big for a long time. Obama has officially put himself in the same class as
Jackie Robinson
Ray Robinson
Muhammad Ali
Michael Jackson
Wilt Chamberlain
Tiger Woods
The first Black to play Hockey and Quarter Back (Was that Warren Moon????)
These are all people that regardless of color changed the game and society's view. Many people are worried about assassination attempts...but I beg to differ....
See the best thing for any extremist to do would be let him live and "mess up the country" like they think he will so that we "dont let another nigger in the white house" Besides black is killing more black than police.
As I woke up this morning and seen the footage of all the people rallying and standing outside in anticipation for today's event Im thinking do we only have 4-8 years of this? When Obama leaves the white house will that STOP all the unity and positivity and rallying behind one individual for the greater good? Be real...we should have this attitude no matter who is in office, but I am glad to see that change happening with just the idea of our president being on color.
Dont get it twisted...Im not all for JUST black presidents...Im down to see a Native American, Asian and a Hispanic one. Lets rally behind them too! Because like it or not minorities built this whole country that Christopher Columbus stumbled on centuries ago and WE ALL have made it better with our differences.
Let's keep this new feeling of hope and change going. Take it to school, work, board meetings, community service EVERYWHERE! Since we have a reason to believe in a president...lets start believing in ourselves and each other.
Jackie Robinson
Ray Robinson
Muhammad Ali
Michael Jackson
Wilt Chamberlain
Tiger Woods
The first Black to play Hockey and Quarter Back (Was that Warren Moon????)
These are all people that regardless of color changed the game and society's view. Many people are worried about assassination attempts...but I beg to differ....
See the best thing for any extremist to do would be let him live and "mess up the country" like they think he will so that we "dont let another nigger in the white house" Besides black is killing more black than police.
As I woke up this morning and seen the footage of all the people rallying and standing outside in anticipation for today's event Im thinking do we only have 4-8 years of this? When Obama leaves the white house will that STOP all the unity and positivity and rallying behind one individual for the greater good? Be real...we should have this attitude no matter who is in office, but I am glad to see that change happening with just the idea of our president being on color.
Dont get it twisted...Im not all for JUST black presidents...Im down to see a Native American, Asian and a Hispanic one. Lets rally behind them too! Because like it or not minorities built this whole country that Christopher Columbus stumbled on centuries ago and WE ALL have made it better with our differences.
Let's keep this new feeling of hope and change going. Take it to school, work, board meetings, community service EVERYWHERE! Since we have a reason to believe in a president...lets start believing in ourselves and each other.
The Album
Well! let's just be honest and not smokescreen the situation...I and many other local and mainstream artist ARE NOT SELLING!!! Sad but true. The site...sometimes its 300 hits and sometimes its 74...So what do you do when that happens???
You realize that you need a better foundation for your fan base before you invest so much money in yourself. 2008 was a great year of progression for us. However I dont have enough fire under my name for my album to have an impact. So the new goal is music last. Im going to be giving out free material...still hot just no price.
Im going to do things I should have BEEN done like pay off bills and boost my credit score, try to get my living and my loving right. May even go get my masters. Either way it officially the year of the grown man. Because a grown man knows how to prioritize and still achieve success.
You realize that you need a better foundation for your fan base before you invest so much money in yourself. 2008 was a great year of progression for us. However I dont have enough fire under my name for my album to have an impact. So the new goal is music last. Im going to be giving out free material...still hot just no price.
Im going to do things I should have BEEN done like pay off bills and boost my credit score, try to get my living and my loving right. May even go get my masters. Either way it officially the year of the grown man. Because a grown man knows how to prioritize and still achieve success.
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